Rediscovering the Power of Curiosity in Coaching: Why Asking "Why?" Matters More Than Ever
- johnvcarnes
- Nov 12, 2023
- 2 min read

Introduction: The Childhood Game of Endless Whys
Do you remember the days of your little one's relentless "Why?" barrage? It's like a never-ending tennis match, where each answer you serve up is swiftly returned with another curious "why?" volley. Humorous now, in the moment it could feel like a test of patience. But here's the delightful twist: this inquisitive nature is the golden ticket in our journey of growth and development.
Curiosity Lost in the Labyrinth of Adulthood
Fast forward to our adult lives, especially in our professional realms, and the scene changes dramatically. That spark of curiosity, once as bright as a firework display at Disney World, seems to dim under the weight of expectations. Suddenly, it's as if we're handed a script where the lines are all answers, and the questions – especially the "whys" – are mysteriously absent.
Simon Sinek’s "The Golden Circle" and The Power of Why
Enter Simon Sinek, our modern-day curiosity champion, urging us to rediscover our 'Why.' His enlightening perspectives, shared in his must-watch TED Talk (link here), are like a lighthouse guiding lost ships back to the shore of inquisitiveness. It’s about more than finding a purpose; it's about rekindling the flame of curiosity that burns in all of us.

The Delightful Dance of Questions and Growth
Let's sprinkle a bit of humor into this narrative. Admitting we don't know it all isn't just humbling; it can be downright funny. It's like acknowledging that while we might be captains of industry or wizards of technology, there are still moments we're like wide-eyed kids in a candy store, marveling at the array of sweets (or in our case, knowledge) before us.
Interactive Engagement: A Poll for Thought
Here's where you come in: I've whipped up a little poll at the end of this post – "What outcome do you most hope for when asking 'why' in professional settings?" Your input is more than just data; it's a treasure trove of insights that can help shape future content.
Wrapping It Up: A Call to Rediscover Your Why
As we wrap up this whimsical journey, it's time to turn introspective. How often do you tap into your inner child's curiosity in your daily grind? If you're ready to dust off your "why" and polish it till it shines, I'm here for you. Reach out for a personalized coaching session, and let's transform your curiosity into a superpower.
Hashtags for Days: Join the Conversation
And don't forget to share your thoughts on social media with hashtags like #CuriosityInCoaching, #AskWhy, #LeadershipGrowth, and #RediscoverCuriosity. Each tag is a doorway to a community waiting to explore the power of curiosity with you.
What outcome do you most hope for when asking 'why' in professional settings?
Gaining new insights or perspectives
Inspiring change or innovation
Building stronger team dynamics
Clarifying and refining processes
A final thought and fun perspective
As the great TV coach Ted Lasso says, always be curious! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oZ4YSXv6Xkg&ab_channel=WhyYouLaughing%3F



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