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Cancer, Clarity, and Why I Coach the Way I Do
In March, I noticed a dry spot in my throat. By May, I had a diagnosis — aggressive HPV-related tonsil cancer. By May 14th, it was a marble-sized tumor. By June 18th, I was in surgery. A 4.5-hour radical neck dissection. The tumor had grown to 4 centimeters. They removed 39 lymph nodes. HPV-related throat cancer is now the most common HPV-related cancer in the U.S. It primarily affects men in their 50s and 60s, usually non-smokers.* I Had to Push The math was simple. This typ
johnvcarnes
6 days ago3 min read


LinkedIn Is Dead: The White Collar-Revolution Is Here
Twenty-one years. That's how long I've watched LinkedIn evolve - or perhaps more accurately, devolve. But it wasn't until listening to...
johnvcarnes
Feb 3, 20257 min read


When Doing the Right Thing Comes at a Cost—And Why It’s Still Worth It
In life and business, we often face moments that force us to choose between what’s easy and what’s right. These decisions can feel risky...
johnvcarnes
Jan 14, 20255 min read


Procrastination: The First Step Toward Regret (and How to Finally Break Free)
A few days ago, I shared a post titled "Welcome to 2025: Will Regret Follow You This Year?" I realize that post may have hit hard. And...
johnvcarnes
Jan 13, 20254 min read


Welcome to 2025: Will Regret Follow You This Year?
Think about it—would we even be here today if our ancestors hadn’t taken action? Some Neanderthal sitting in a cold, fireless cave could...
johnvcarnes
Jan 11, 20252 min read


The 5% Illusion: Transforming How We See and Are Seen
My father died two weeks ago today, and I discovered that 95% of what I believed about him was wrong. This isn't a metaphor or an...
johnvcarnes
Dec 1, 20245 min read


2025: Your Next Move Predicts Your Next Year - In Every Area of Life
When was the last time ignoring a challenge made it smaller? Here's a truth that might make you uncomfortable: How you handle challenges...
johnvcarnes
Nov 27, 20244 min read


Breaking Through: When Excellence Requires More Than Data and Determination
"Sometimes the most powerful breakthroughs in professional development come when we look beyond metrics for guidance." What defines true...
johnvcarnes
Nov 17, 20244 min read


Breaking Through: The Journey to Leadership Excellence and Professional Growth
"Sometimes the most powerful breakthroughs in professional development come when we look beyond our familiar circles for guidance." What...
johnvcarnes
Nov 3, 20244 min read


Job Scams Are Stealing Dreams and Crushing Hopes: Protect Yourself Now!
In my years as a Life and Executive Coach working with clients who are focusing on their professional advancements, I've witnessed the...
johnvcarnes
Jul 10, 20246 min read


Mastering the Art of Instant Influence: A Comprehensive Guide to Transforming Your Life and Relationships
Introduction: In Michael V. Pantalon's groundbreaking book, "Instant Influence," readers are introduced to a powerful framework and...
johnvcarnes
Jul 2, 20247 min read


Reclaiming Your Identity: How Coaching Helps You Prioritize Purpose in the Corporate World
Did you know that if you work a typical 8-hour day and have a 16-hour waking day, you spend 50% of your waking hours at work during the...
johnvcarnes
May 30, 20243 min read


Making Change Stick: The Critical Role of Reinforcement in Coaching Outcomes
Change is a journey, not a destination. While taking the first step towards transformation is undoubtedly crucial, the real challenge...
johnvcarnes
May 23, 20243 min read


Strategic Steps: Crafting a Change Plan That Works With Coaching Insights
When it comes to achieving your goals and creating lasting change, having a well-crafted plan is essential. As the renowned author and...
johnvcarnes
May 19, 20243 min read


Quick Wins: Harnessing the Two-Minute Motivator for Rapid Personal Change
Let's face it, life doesn't seem to be slowing down, and in today's fast-paced world, change is not just inevitable; it's a constant. As...
johnvcarnes
May 16, 20243 min read


Empowering Change: How Positive Feedback in Coaching Accelerates Personal Growth
Picture this: you've been working tirelessly on a project, pouring your heart and soul into every detail. You submit your work, eagerly...
johnvcarnes
May 16, 20243 min read


The Art of Listening: How Coaching Unearths Hidden Motives for Breakthrough Results
In our fast-paced, noise-filled world, true listening has become a rare and precious skill. We often hear the words people say, but how...
johnvcarnes
May 16, 20243 min read


Envisioning Success: How Coaching Helps You Scale Up Your Life Goals
Imagine waking up tomorrow to find that your biggest dream has become a reality. How would you feel? What would your life look like? This...
johnvcarnes
May 16, 20243 min read


Unlocking Your True Potential: How Intrinsic Motivation and Autonomy Fuel Personal Growth
Have you ever found yourself struggling to make a change or reach a goal, despite your best efforts? You're not alone. Many of us have...
johnvcarnes
May 16, 20243 min read


Coaching: Illuminating the Path to Personal and Professional Growth
Navigating the complex terrain of a professional career can feel like traversing an uncharted forest. Daily challenges and immediate...
johnvcarnes
May 13, 20245 min read
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